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Orange People Are Essential Players on Your Team

Monday, August 10th, 2009

All Color Styles are “essential” on a team, but this article will focus on our Orange friends.

 

When I walk into a company with few or no Orange people on the team, the atmosphere feels like death to me. Everybody is overly serious. Lists of mission statements, policies, rules, and regulations paper the walls. Whether or not the business is turning a profit is of little concern to people like me when I have to wonder what it’s like to work at a place where Oranges are not attracted to work there or, worse, not welcome.

 

I’m just trying to imagine what Geico commercials would be like if no Oranges made contributions to the marketing planning. The little gecko animal had to be a spontaneous brainchild of an Orange person who was looking for something fun and easy to remember.

 

If you look at other insurance commercials, you’ll find most of them still focus on reliability, safety, and a long tradition – admirable qualities for insurance, but uninteresting if the point is to quickly get your attention in thirty seconds.

 

To be fair, Orange people are rarely attracted to the insurance business, so it’s hard to recruit them. On the other hand, what is it about the business that could attract them if someone really put their mind to it?

 

A successful attractor of Oranges was the Primerica insurance company. Primerica’s business model was based on competing against traditional insurance, breaking old rules, moving around a lot from house to house and even town to town. Prizes in the form of rapid rank advancement and cash bonuses proved irresistible to Orange people.

 

And talk about teamwork! With Primerica’s business model, getting help from the “higher ups” and giving help to the “underlings” made for days filled with variety, surprises, competition, light-heartedness, and plenty of opportunities to celebrate with parties, trips, and conventions.

 

To tell the truth, Orange people are a little scary to traditional workers who like dependable hours, careful decision-making, steady progress, formal meetings, and so forth. Oranges break rules, think way out of the box, stay away from offices and cubicles, and even entertain coworkers in the middle of the business day with jokes and music.

 

What should not be scary, however, is that Oranges contribute to the bottom line every bit as well as the other Colors. And to make that happen they must feel they have the freedom to many things their own way. They usually do well because customers like them. They act fast. They don’t waste time or make customers wait for action.

 

So, how many Oranges are part of your team? If you have a few, how are they contributing to building your team and meeting your goals? If not many, or none, how are you coping without them?  Your comments are very welcome.

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Seminar on August 11 – FEW SEATS LEFT!

Sunday, August 2nd, 2009

I rarely put on a public seminar because it’s easier to book three in-house workshops for $3000 a pop than to entice a single individual to show up for a bargain-basement forty-nine-dollar seminar – which delivers the very same high-quality service as the three-thousand-dollar program.

 

Curious? Well then, check out the invitation to True Colors, The Most Useful Workshop You Will Ever Attend! Just a few seats left.

 

Here’s the link: www.jackdermody.eventbrite.com.

 

When you understand your own temperament and other people’s temperaments, you become a free human being. Other people don’t bug you so much. You stop feeling guilty about your so-called weaknesses. Everybody in the room learns how to communicate better than ever. You figure out really quickly how to divvy up tasks on your team. You reduce conflict as if someone opened a window and let all the negative stuff go out, just as though a balloon had been popped. Stress, too, gets relieved.

 

How many seminars have you attended that do THAT??? Yes, I promise that this True Colors workshop really is “the most useful workshop you will ever attend.”

 

 

 

 

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Green People Are Essential Players on Your Team

Monday, July 27th, 2009

All Colors Styles are “essential” on a team, but this article will focus on our Green friends.

 

I was once an HR trainer on a team that had hired only one identifiable Green person. The lack of other Greens did not bother me a lot at the beginning because I don’t enjoy the company of Greens all that much. I say that because I have traits that repel Green folks: I’m a hugger, very spontaneous with unsubstantiated ideas, and quite happy wearing my emotions on my sleeve.

 

To me, Green people are knowledgeable but often impatient when it comes to sharing the knowledge with folks who are not as “deep” as they. They ask hard questions and appear overly critical – even icy at times. They’re not big on small talk, warm relationships, social events, or spur-of-the-moment fun and games.

 

If you are Green and have your dander up right now, you may indeed consider yourself quite warm and “fun” – and you may very well be!!! – but I’m here to tell you that the general consensus of people of the three other Color styles bears me out.

 

I started this article saying my team of trainers had only one Green. An enormous problem was that she was the only team member who primarily concerned herself with strategic planning, deep research, needs analysis – in a phrase, with gathering important knowledge and figuring out how to keep the bar raised on our team.

 

Because we were blessed with only one Green, a committee consisting only of Orange and Blue people ended up being tasked to choose a Civil Treatment program for New Employee Orientation. The student evaluations later revealed the program was exciting and wonderfully people-centered, but it lacked focus, a good system to follow, and it was embarrassingly short on up-to-date information.

 

A team lacking Green is very likely to be a team lacking scholarly depth. Without Greens on board, important questions may not be asked. Don’t expect a lot of research. Don’t expect folks to be looking five or ten years into the future. When a study has been made, you have to ask if the real experts have been found.

 

Eventually a couple of other Greens joined the staff. A Civil Treatment program was created that today serves as a model for corporate and government training programs around the world.

 

Green people are not “smarter” than other people. And non-Greens are not incapable of thinking and acting like Greens either. What Greens do generally possess, however, is a natural inclination for strategic thinking, scholarly study, and the ability to create complex systems for use in the everyday world. An organization with big ideas would be foolish not to actively recruit people with clear Green styles to help with big-picture thinking, planning, and creativity.

 

So, how many Greens are part of your team? If you have a few, how are they contributing to building your team and meeting your goals? If not many, or none, how are you coping without them?  Your comments are very welcome.

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Employees from Hell: Two Sure-Fire Ways to Deal With Them

Tuesday, June 30th, 2009

In your mind, employees “from hell” can be poisoning your world and putting your business at risk. If it turns out they are not evil, dim-witted, or insane, then you may have a great shot at dealing with them.

ANSWER #1. You might be the problem. Let’s face it, you might not be judging them fairly. I remember an employee I’ll call Bob, for example.

Bob was a negative guy. Nobody around him followed the rules well enough and he complained constantly. He sent e-mails about rule infractions to the highest levels in the company, added a few voice mails, and sang the same song in public meetings.

For me, Bob was a pain – rigid, judgmental, bossy, uptight, and just plain mean. I got a stomach ache whenever he came around.

Now Bob had a Gold personality style. Golds care about rules, stability, responsibility, and doing the right thing. One day it dawned on me that Bob’s motives might be pure and, to him, correct in every way.

He did not mean to hurt people or poison the atmosphere. In fact, he just wanted to work in a place where he could trust and depend on others. To Bob, breaking rules was a form of lying, destroying trust, and making him nervous about loyalty. He demanded high standards for himself and projected that onto his coworkers.

So what’s the ah-hah moment here? Don’t judge right away. Look to the positive motivations behind a person’s frustrating behavior. Look for what’s strong and good about the person underneath. Wouldn’t you want others to do the same for you?

ANSWER #2. Identify the “problem” and coach the employee. Yeah, looking for the “good” in everybody is fine but you’re probably thinking I’m living in Lah-Lah Land, right? Come on now – Bob is still a pain, and those “coworkers” avoided him like the plague.

And that’s correct. People think he’s a jerk. So what do you?

You have business reasons to confront the employee. People don’t feel good around Bob. They don’t go near him. Some jobs might not be getting done. Some people are not communicating well. That’s hurting business.

Invite the employee in for a private meeting. Tell him what the meeting is about. Show respect by acknowledging what the employee cares about. When the person is Gold, especially acknowledge him for his responsibility and hard work.

Talk next about your own responsibilities to the company and to all the employees. You need harmony, good communication, high energy and – most of all – high production. Tell the employee these goals are in trouble.

Ask for the employee’s help. Bob, for example, is not wrong about the rule infractions he is witnessing. Tell him what’s wrong is that the employees see him as a cop instead of a coworker and that gets in the way of teamwork. Ask Bob’s help to curb his public complaints and, instead, make them private. For more serious problems – theft for example – go to the company officer who can do something about it. Again, if you’re dealing with a Gold person, you have an employee who respects the company chain of command.

Appeal to the employee’s strengths. Returning to Bob, ask him to be responsible for himself most of all, to focus on what he can control himself, and to concern himself with other people’s business when it’s very, very important. Finally, Bob surely wants to be part of a functioning team, so encourage him to lighten up, stop obsessing on past actions, and position himself as the responsible and respected leader that he probably aspires to be.

Every single one of your employees wants respect. So find out what their true values are. Change how you talk to them so they see you are tuned into their strengths, needs, and values. Finally, ask them to do the same thing: find out about the values of fellow employees. Change their language and actions so that others be able to tune into the message because it feels respectful and demonstrates understanding.

Do YOU have employees-from-hell stories to share? If so, please comment on this blog entry. And thank you.

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Gold People Are Essential Players on Your Team

Wednesday, June 24th, 2009

All Colors Styles are “essential” on a team, but this article will focus on our Gold friends.

Boy, is it ever hard to imagine any company, or even a work team, that does not include Gold members. After all, one half of the world is Gold.

Sure, there a few very small groups of entrepreneurs who have no Golds whatsoever. For instance, I frequent a 60’s-style jewelry shop run by three people whose Colors are so clear that no formal personality assessment is necessary. The Blue owner can never say no to any request. Her Green husband hangs at home to play on his computer all day. The Orange brother has the customer service skills of Dr. House but can rival Tiffany’s in jewelry design.

How they’ve stayed in business for forty-plus years is something I never used to understand. They toss cash in a coffee can, write receipts by hand, and seem really sloppy about inventory.

But I learned recently they have secret. The secret is they hired a Gold accounting vendor outside the family whose job it is to sort the income, put the receipts and bills in order, create a Quicken spreadsheet, then deal directly with another Gold person who happens to be the tax guy. The only “Gold job” that the owners have is to toss all the paperwork into a shoebox for Ms. Gold to do her magic with.

So, yes, Golds are essential to any business – even when they must be outsourced.

How can we count the ways that Golds are essential? If you want the system you created to work, ask the Gold to run it. If policies and rules matter, let the Golds enforce them. If you don’t want your customers to die from the food you produce, have Gold people inspect it. When a steady income depends on steady hard work, hire Golds. If there’s a chance outside forces will hurt you, look for Gold safety people to protect you.

Returning to the free-wheeling jewelers, they would feel cramped and uncomfortable with Gold people actually working alongside them in the shop, but they were smart enough to pay for Gold skills when it mattered.

In my workshops, most participants agree that the world would turn to chaos without Gold thinking, Gold values, Gold principles, and Gold leadership. That is probably true, but what’s more important, I think, is knowing that the Gold people who work for you not only talk the talk, but also walk the walk of duty and responsibility. They believe in it. They care about it. They act on it.

What’s it like in your world? What do Gold folks contribute to your company? Or are you a company that lacks Gold behavior and would benefit from hiring more Golds? Please comment on this blog entry.

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Blue People Are Essential Players on Your Team

Wednesday, June 24th, 2009

All Colors Styles are “essential” on a team, but this article will focus on our Blue friends.

When executives tell me they have “people problems,” the solution can sometimes be easier than you think. Individuals on the executive team might consider digging up their “inner Blue” or else delegating “people solutions” to managers who have clear Blue characteristics as a part of their own personality.

Blue folks are naturally good at working with people. The good news is that they are mentors and advocates, teachers, healers, and champions of personal development and organizational improvement. The bad news is that very few Blue people rise to executive ranks because they either do not enjoy those positions or they are overlooked for being “too touchy-feely.”

Recently, I was invited to help a team whose front line people did not like the executive in charge because he simply issued demands and refused to interact much with the rest of the team. Both performance and morale were dangerously low.

I interviewed the much maligned executive first, and he turned out to be Green – very proud of his own knowledge, competence, competitive edge, and work ethic. He insisted he reached the level he achieved because of his own hard-work, independence, and clock-like reliability. He was a self-starter, he said, and had little patience for other people who weren’t.

Later I interviewed his employees. They also claimed to be hard workers, self-starters, and so forth. What they didn’t like was the apparent lack of empathy and basic social skills of their boss. The employees felt they worked in a hard, cold – even toxic – atmosphere and that their efforts, ideas, and energy were unappreciated.

It turned out that most of the employees were clearly Blue. For Blues, the bottom line to most all activity is the quality of human relationships – yes, even in a business setting, i.e., people relating and getting along. Really great, harmonic relationships are almost never less important than performance, production, profits, or any other scale of business success you can mention.

So from a boss (of any Color), Blues would like to have plenty of verbal give and take, face-to-face meetings, the sharing and respecting of ideas, and the ability to change in new directions. They actually have a fundamental need for personal interaction. Blues love democracy and consensus.

Green folks like their boss love independence and control over their own environment. They often shun small talk and social gatherings (even business meetings). They relish figuring things about by themselves and usually wish that everybody else would do the same thing. Oranges and Golds, by the way, can be just as task-oriented as Greens.

So you can see why the Green boss may have thought his employees were time-wasting, touchy-feely crybabies in the workplace where folks should be concentrating on excelling in their work, and less on “talking.”

The Blues, on the other hand, felt unappreciated, not listened to, disrespected, left alone, and unsupported.

When the workshop was over, the Green boss finally realized that if he wanted to improve performance and morale on the team that he’d have to step out of his independent world and sit at a round table with the Blue folks. Clearly the Blues would have a great deal to contribute. Surely the Green exec was as smart as the dickens, but the wisdom and talent of the whole team was much smarter when all team members got to put in their two cents on a regular basis.

Blue people are a productive organization’s glue. You’ll find Blues most frequently in customer support, human resources, training, wellness programs – anywhere that people need or want to operate face-to-face.

Although Blue folks really don’t like conflict, they are the ones to call when conflict happens. It is their greatest desire to help people create harmony.

And although Blues seem to be “too social” for a business setting, a workplace that encourages warm social interaction will find performance and morale very high. Yes, among the endless warm words, hugs, relentless sharing of ideas, office celebrations, after-hours gatherings, and lots of atta-boys, you will walk each day into a welcoming, productive, and proud place to work.

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